INA International NLP Association & INLP Center
Association for Integrative Psychology Master NLP
Psychology Today Therapist
Brainwave and meditation instructor
American Union of NLP (#3171)
American Counseling Association Professional Member
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Hello, I am privileged to serve in private practice working with a broad spectrum of clients. In addition to being a certified professional Master NLP Practitioner, I am please to be asked to speak frequently on topics related to NLP. Sometimes I am asked to present to general audiences topics such as “finding one’s true purpose,” Conversational hypnosis,” and on issues related to depression and anxiety, as well as to the business world to build more self-esteem and bring about empowerment. Entering the wonderful world of personal freedom that comes from the courage to tweak or change what is familiar by realizing that choice is always possible in how we react to negative influences in life. Rising from internal conflicts of self- sabotage usually shows up later by manifesting in our lives as anxiety, fear, depression and more is universal.You are not alone. Learning that there is possibility in even the bleakest of thoughts is empowering. Which is why I personally love to see the transformation occur in my clients once their personal fears are realized and overcome. Dreams long forgotten are re-kindled again, and become realized and possible. Building awareness is necessary for profound life changes. Freedom comes from letting go of the negative experiences that no longer serve us. Keeping perceptions and beliefs that do serve us. Knowing we have the choice and the power to choose.
I take my credentials seriously. I take you seriously. I work with you without judgments and blame of any kind. I dedicate myself to my client and I am here only to provide positive benefit you.
I am the only known Master NLP in North and South Carolina, and possibly in many other states,that has taken an interest in breaking through the barriers of traditional, clinical mental health services to integrate much needed and poorly under-served alternative mental health care practices. In June of 2016, I became accepted with affiliation to the Association of Integrative Psychology, receiving this recognition means a lot to me. I have also received more personal certification as Master Neuro Linguistic Practitioner twice over. This is a very large step forward for alternative holistic mental health care, giving great credibility to the work I am performing always with you in mind.
As a woman that has risen out of my own negative and sometimes traumatic life experiences, I chose to name my business, Phenix NLP after Greek Mythology of the Phenix rising from the ashes. I have had to make many life changing decisions to be able to evolve, rise out and up, using negative experiences to create and be successful at positive change instead of allowing the destruction of negative thought. Providing compassion and empathy from these experiences that I am now grateful for from my past I personally believe, and know that in order to foster absolute awareness, one is able to turn negatives into positives. “How” is key to the way this is accomplished. In many other searches for understanding, sometimes we find temporary understanding, but seldom do we receive direction on how to transform and move on from there. Tools and process work hand in hand to bring about transformation that is permanent. Neuro Linguistic Programming goes deep bringing the positive to the surface almost effortlessly in a shorter period of time than clinical therapies which can take years.
I realized a long time ago, this was the field I was being called to serve in. People I did not know personally naturally seemed compelled to approach me in public to tell me of their life stories long before I became a MNLP. In those moments, I began to realize that along with my long standing interest and passion in psychology and the power of the mind, I was committed to learning all that I could and assist others by choosing Neuro Linguistic Programming. My life challenges have taught me to truly realize and understand what my client is going through to the best of my abilities by having walked some of those paths personally. Helping others to realize they have a choice is freeing and provides a stronger sense of self than anything negative I could conjure up in my mind. I have learned much from NLP, putting it through the test first within my own neurology. Along with textbook learning,and hands on practice, I bring my personal skills to you. I know it takes courage, but I also know it will be accomplished if you are truly ready to commit to the work.If you are truly ready to re- discover who you are, if your limiting self- beliefs are standing in your way of being happy, leaving you feeling unfulfilled…..NLP is priceless. There is absolutely no amount of dollars spent anywhere else where you would ever realize the lasting gift of personal freedom that is gained for a lifetime using the NLP process. You may have tried self-help techniques many times before, but for some reason they didn’t stick. Until you reach the root of self-sabotage, negative behavior will most likely will return. NLP will painlessly reach the root cause to provide the positive results you are looking for once and for all. This is where my reward comes from… This is why I do what I do.
I am a certified Master Neuro Linguistic, meditation, brainwave, and mindfulness practitioner that is always looking for ways to better serve you, my client in the best possible way. Each client has their own set of experiences. Therefore, each is treated as an individual. We all have our own unique beliefs, perceptions, and experiences this changes how you view the world. Please, do not be afraid to call. I urge you to set up your complimentary consultation now. There is no risk. I respond personally to each and every request by phone or email.
Positively yours, Davidene Bender-Main MNLP